The Engagement Reaction
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The Big Bang Theory

Is The Big Bang Theory S4 E23 OK for kids?

The Engagement Reaction

When Howard finally breaks the news to his mom that he's engaged to Bernadette, it lands her in the hospital.

📺 Where to watch

Netflix, HBO or Disney+ — catalogs differ by country.

🛒 Where to buy

Digital seasons or a box set to keep.

Content guide

👊 Violence
💋 Sex
🙊 Language
⭐ Overall

Preview first — about 10+

The Big Bang Theory S4 E23, “The Engagement Reaction”, scores 1/5 for violence, 2/5 for sex and 3/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 3/5 — Preview first — about 10+. When Howard finally breaks the news to his mom that he's engaged to Bernadette, it lands her in the hospital.

Across the episode we counted 9 flagged moments in 3 themes: Sex & hookups (5); Swearing (3); Alcohol & drugs (1). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.

Watch for — every moment, theme by theme

Sex & hookups 5 moments

How Sex & hookups shows up in The Big Bang Theory S4 E23:

  • Bernadette Howard’s mother had a heart attack because I have sex with him and she can’t.
  • Penny It makes him desperate to please women. That’s why the foreplay goes on and on.
  • Leonard It doesn’t matter. I’m the king of foreplay.
  • Bernadette You mean sexual intercourse?
  • Howard Is it just me, or does she sound sexy when she’s angry?

Swearing 3 moments

How Swearing shows up in The Big Bang Theory S4 E23:

  • Howard Falls over.) Son of a bitch!
  • Sheldon (exiting while the door is open): Finally. (Goes down corridor. Dodges into a door to avoid a coughing patient on a trolley. The room is full of doctors in hazmat suits.) Oh, what fresh hell is this?
  • Leonard Hell Hounds.

Alcohol & drugs 1 moment

How Alcohol & drugs shows up in The Big Bang Theory S4 E23:

  • Sheldon I gargled with tequila and may have swallowed a teeny bit.

Watch With The Kids · You kids — your rules! · Informal parent guidance, not an official rating.