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Skip for under 13
Friends S4 E13, “The One With Rachel’s Crush”, scores 1/5 for violence, 4/5 for sex and 2/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 4/5 — Skip for under 13.
Across the episode we counted 25 flagged moments in 6 themes: Sex & hookups (9); Nudity & bodies (8); Porn / strippers / sex work (3); Affairs / cheating (2); Alcohol & drugs (2); Slut-shaming (1). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.
Watch for — every moment, theme by theme
Sex & hookups 9 moments
How Sex & hookups shows up in Friends S4 E13:
- Chandler spirals after thinking Kathy is sleeping with her co-star.
- Chandler
Okay, she is the star of the play. And she is my girlfriend! I get to have sex with the star of the play!
- Chandler
Chandler wonders into the girl’s apartment.) You will all be very happy to hear that Kathy is sleeping with that guy!
- Chandler
Well y'know, what if she didn’t actually sleep with the guy?
- Chandler
Well, she wasn’t sleeping with him.
- Joey
The rule is when two actors are actually doing it off-stage all the sexual tension between them is gone.
- Ross
Y’know what, I don’t know how comfortable I am going to see how hot the sex is between some guy and your girlfriend.
- Ross
All right, let’s not jump to any conclusions. All right? There was some sexual chemistry between them.
- Chandler
Come on, it was like cousins having sex up there!
Nudity & bodies 8 moments
How Nudity & bodies shows up in Friends S4 E13:
- Chandler
I’m saying that she… is a devil woman! Y’know I mean you think you know someone and then they turn around and they sleep with Nick! Nick, with his rock hard pecs, and his giant man-nipples!
- Chandler
Because, I-I should’ve called! Y’know if I had just called her after our big, stupid fight, she never would’ve gone out with Nick, and they would’ve ended up in bed together. I threw her at his man nipples!
- Ross
Well, Kathy gets half-naked and simulates sex with a real good lookin’ guy.
- Rachel
(on the phone) Monica, I’m quitting! I just helped an 81 year old woman put on a thong and she didn’t even buy it!
- He walks over to look and some clothes and Rachel quickly turns around and adjusts her bra, trying to show off her assets.
- Joshua
Yeah, but it wasn’t much fun dropping it off at the dry cleaners in the skirt. (Rachel laughs) So I need everything down to underwear, so if you’re willing, I’m all yours.
- Rachel
No-no, that wasn’t me! (To Joshua) Well, we should get started. Let me show you my underwear. (Joshua turns at that) The selection of underwear we carry.
- Chandler
Y’know, I-I could see how this could happen, y'know you’re up there every night, you’re naked, touching, kissing.
Porn / strippers / sex work 3 moments
How Porn / strippers / sex work shows up in Friends S4 E13:
- Ross jokes about 'cookies and porn' while his mom visits.
- Ross
Cookies and porn, you’re the best mom ever!!
- Monica
No, wait, please don’t go! I’ve got porn for you too!
Affairs / cheating 2 moments
How Affairs / cheating shows up in Friends S4 E13:
- Kathy
Okay, so let me just get this straight. You’re accusing me of cheating on you, and insulting my performance?
- Ross
Well, if-if she thought they were on a break…
Alcohol & drugs 2 moments
How Alcohol & drugs shows up in Friends S4 E13:
- Chandler comes back, obviously drunk, and trips over the steps.
- Chandler
Well, I may be drunk, but I know what she said! Then I went over to Beefsteak Julie’s…
Slut-shaming 1 moment
How Slut-shaming shows up in Friends S4 E13:
- Chandler
Steps! (He opens the door to his apartment to Ross and Joey looking at the new Playboy) Slut!
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