The one with the donor
🎞️ S9 E22 🤔 Gray area

Friends

Is Friends S9 E22 OK for kids?

The one with the donor

📺 Where to watch

Netflix, HBO or Disney+ — catalogs differ by country.

🛒 Where to buy

Digital seasons or a box set to keep.

Content guide

👊 Violence
💋 Sex
🙊 Language
⭐ Overall

Preview first — about 10+

Friends S9 E22, “The one with the donor”, scores 1/5 for violence, 3/5 for sex and 2/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 3/5 — Preview first — about 10+.

Across the episode we counted 15 flagged moments in 5 themes: Sex & hookups (8); Nudity & bodies (1); Porn / strippers / sex work (1); Violence & injury (1); Alcohol & drugs (4). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.

Watch for — every moment, theme by theme

Sex & hookups 8 moments

How Sex & hookups shows up in Friends S9 E22:

  • Chandler Oh, I can't believe my sperm have low motility because, let me tell you, when I was growing up they sure seem to be in a hurry to get places!!
  • Doctor Connelly Ok, given your situation, the options with the greatest chances for success would be surrogacy, or insemination using a sperm donor.
  • Chandler Aside from adoption the only other choice is insemination, so... we're talking about sperm donors.
  • Chandler Well, we're talking about sperm donors and Zack may be the guy! I mean, look, he's intelligent, he's healthy, he's athletic, I mean, he is "spermtastic"!
  • Chandler Wait, if we're lucky, and we're really really really quiet, we may be able to hear the sound of a condom breaking!
  • Rachel (speaking to herself and reading Cosmopolitan) Oh, lucky me! Coffee and a live sex show!
  • Phoebe (after a short pause) I didn't even think about that! (pause) Aaargh, sexual politics!!
  • Doctor Connelly Above all, even though your chances of conceiving through natural means aren't great, you never know! So, keep having sex on a regular basis.

Nudity & bodies 1 moment

How Nudity & bodies shows up in Friends S9 E22:

  • Joey …who taught me, you don't wear white after labour day and that you always, always, always have to put on underwear when you're trying on clothes.

Porn / strippers / sex work 1 moment

How Porn / strippers / sex work shows up in Friends S9 E22:

  • Chandler Not as much fun as last time. Apparently you only get porn if you're giving a sperm sample.

Violence & injury 1 moment

How Violence & injury shows up in Friends S9 E22:

  • Monica Oh, friends first, drunk in London, you know the story. I've got a better question for you: Do you or any of your blood relatives have diabetes?

Alcohol & drugs 4 moments

How Alcohol & drugs shows up in Friends S9 E22:

  • Chandler You guys haven't actually met before, but, boy! You're both polite! (pause) Go to have a seat Zack, and I'll get you a beer.
  • Chandler (bringing the beer to Zack) Zack!
  • Joey Alright, then you go to that party and you pretend to be over Mike. And afterward you come to my place and I'll get you good and drunk!
  • Phoebe You got it! Ok. But not on the wine that you made, ok, because I just don't want to go back to the Emergency Room.

Watch With The Kids · You kids — your rules! · Informal parent guidance, not an official rating.