Can't Elope
🎞️ S10 E20 ✅ All clear

Modern Family

Is Modern Family S10 E20 OK for kids?

Can't Elope

Haley and Dylan's plan to quietly elope before the babies are born doesn't go as smoothly as they had hoped. Meanwhile, Jay continues to try and get his new business off the ground by courting an Instagram celebrity.

📺 Where to watch

Netflix, HBO or Disney+ — catalogs differ by country.

🛒 Where to buy

Digital seasons or a box set to keep.

Content guide

👊 Violence
💋 Sex
🙊 Language
⭐ Overall

Mild — okay from about 9+

Modern Family S10 E20, “Can't Elope”, scores 2/5 for violence, 1/5 for sex and 2/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 2/5 — Mild — okay from about 9+. Haley and Dylan's plan to quietly elope before the babies are born doesn't go as smoothly as they had hoped. Meanwhile, Jay continues to try and get his new business off the ground by courting an Instagram celebrity.

Across the episode we counted 6 flagged moments in 4 themes: Sex & hookups (1); Violence & injury (2); Alcohol & drugs (2); Slut-shaming (1). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.

Watch for — every moment, theme by theme

Sex & hookups 1 moment

How Sex & hookups shows up in Modern Family S10 E20:

  • And the only thing less sexy than a dog bed is a quitter, and I didn't marry a quitter.

Violence & injury 2 moments

How Violence & injury shows up in Modern Family S10 E20:

  • I would murder my entire family and all of their friends to see that musical.
  • Who should I choose? Either way, I lose I stare at the gun Is it daughter, is it son? Choices - Impossible choices - Choices - Impossible choices - Impossible Both: Choices This is why I can't have friends over.

Alcohol & drugs 2 moments

How Alcohol & drugs shows up in Modern Family S10 E20:

  • Oh, it's such an honor to - Vodka! - Oh.
  • You're gonna taste some wine today! Hey, hey, hey.

Slut-shaming 1 moment

How Slut-shaming shows up in Modern Family S10 E20:

  • If we said yes to everything, then we're no better than that whore Grumpy Cat.

Watch With The Kids · You kids — your rules! · Informal parent guidance, not an official rating.