9. Tough Love
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Modern Family

Is Modern Family S9 E9 OK for kids?

9. Tough Love

After leaving his real estate firm to strike out on his own, Phil decides a solo camping trip in the wild will be just what he needs to boost his confidence. Meanwhile, Mitchell's plan to teach Cam a lesson in gullibility and Lily a lesson in responsibility backfires.

📺 Where to watch

Netflix, HBO or Disney+ — catalogs differ by country.

🛒 Where to buy

Digital seasons or a box set to keep.

Content guide

👊 Violence
💋 Sex
🙊 Language
⭐ Overall

Preview first — about 10+

Modern Family S9 E9, “9. Tough Love”, scores 3/5 for violence, 2/5 for sex and 2/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 3/5 — Preview first — about 10+. After leaving his real estate firm to strike out on his own, Phil decides a solo camping trip in the wild will be just what he needs to boost his confidence. Meanwhile, Mitchell's plan to teach Cam a lesson in gullibility and Lily a lesson in responsibility backfires.

Across the episode we counted 8 flagged moments in 3 themes: Sex & hookups (1); Violence & injury (3); Alcohol & drugs (4). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.

Watch for — every moment, theme by theme

Sex & hookups 1 moment

How Sex & hookups shows up in Modern Family S9 E9:

  • Joe is sleeping in a fort downstairs, and Manny's upstairs sleeping with a doctor.

Violence & injury 3 moments

How Violence & injury shows up in Modern Family S9 E9:

  • I have two weeks worth of food, water purifiers a flare gun.
  • I'm not gonna shoot off a flare gun in the house.
  • Meanwhile, uh, I am sending you a pic of me enjoying nature at my last known location in my very identifiable red Gore-Tex jacket.

Alcohol & drugs 4 moments

How Alcohol & drugs shows up in Modern Family S9 E9:

  • So, Shane not a 16-year-old drug dealer who enjoys humiliating you but a baby-faced police officer, has deputized you, and your first…
  • Hey, Lily, the library is saying that "Stripey the Zebracorn" is two months overdue? What what's that about? We have a new librarian, and she's a little She's been drunk e-mailing a lot.
  • Have more wine.
  • I'll go get some more wine.

Watch With The Kids · You kids — your rules! · Informal parent guidance, not an official rating.