The One With The Memorial Service
🎞️ S9 E17 🚫 Too much

Friends

Is Friends S9 E17 OK for kids?

The One With The Memorial Service

📺 Where to watch

Netflix, HBO or Disney+ — catalogs differ by country.

🛒 Where to buy

Digital seasons or a box set to keep.

Content guide

👊 Violence
💋 Sex
🙊 Language
⭐ Overall

Skip for under 13

Friends S9 E17, “The One With The Memorial Service”, scores 1/5 for violence, 4/5 for sex and 2/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 4/5 — Skip for under 13.

Across the episode we counted 6 flagged moments in 3 themes: Sex & hookups (4); Porn / strippers / sex work (1); Alcohol & drugs (1). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.

Parents need to know

Age 13+

Strip-club and porn references, sex talk, drinking in live-action sitcom.

Parents need to know that Friends S9 E17, "The One With The Memorial Service", is a live-action sitcom episode. The series is known for dating and hookup talk is constant; the violence is slapstick. Driven by porn / strippers / sex work (explicit, in dialogue), with sex & hookups alongside it. Sexual content is explicit — for example, Chandler says, "The tall girl who wouldn't sleep with you?"; Ross says, "You've really crossed the line here, but that's okay, it's ok 'cause I'm on my way to…". Some mild language appears in the dialogue. Characters drink or talk about alcohol and drugs — Monica says, "You know, on the way over here, I saw this drunk guy throw up. And then a pigeon ate it!". Every flagged moment below is a direct quote from the transcript or a short description of what happens on screen.

Watch for — every moment, theme by theme

Sex & hookups 4 moments

How Sex & hookups shows up in Friends S9 E17:

  • Caution
    Chandler The tall girl who wouldn't sleep with you?
  • Caution
    Chandler Bet she'd sleep with you now...
  • Caution
    Ross (yelling at Chandler) I have sex with dinosaurs??
  • Mild
    Chandler It's the best sex I've ever had"...

Porn / strippers / sex work 1 moment

How Porn / strippers / sex work shows up in Friends S9 E17:

  • Too much
    Ross You've really crossed the line here, but that's okay, it's ok 'cause I'm on my way to buy some Photoshop software and a stack of gay porn. That's right! Your coming out is about to get real graphic.

Alcohol & drugs 1 moment

How Alcohol & drugs shows up in Friends S9 E17:

  • Mild
    Monica You know, on the way over here, I saw this drunk guy throw up. And then a pigeon ate it!

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