A Hard Jay's Night
🎞️ S5 E19 ✅ Mild

Modern Family

Is Modern Family S5 E19 OK for kids?

A Hard Jay's Night

Mitch struggles to hide his true feelings about the unflattering wedding topper Cam's father whittled out of soap for them, Phil tries to help Gloria sell her pre-Jay apartment but they get sidetracked at the neighborhood salon, and Claire and the kids head over to Jay's early to help him prep for the special night with the family he's hosting but they end up just butting heads.

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Netflix, HBO or Disney+ — catalogs differ by country.

🛒 Where to buy

Digital seasons or a box set to keep.

Content guide

👊 Violence
💋 Sex
🙊 Language
⭐ Overall

Mild — okay from about 9+

Modern Family S5 E19, “A Hard Jay's Night”, scores 1/5 for violence, 1/5 for sex and 2/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 2/5 — Mild — okay from about 9+. Mitch struggles to hide his true feelings about the unflattering wedding topper Cam's father whittled out of soap for them, Phil tries to help Gloria sell her pre-Jay apartment but they get sidetracked at the neighborhood salon, and Claire and the kids head over to Jay's early to help him prep for the special night with the family he's hosting but they end up just butting heads.

Across the episode we counted 6 flagged moments in 2 themes: Swearing (3); Alcohol & drugs (3). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.

Parents need to know

Age 9+

Language, drinking, mild language in live-action sitcom.

Parents need to know that Modern Family S5 E19, "A Hard Jay's Night", is a live-action sitcom episode. The series is known for family-first; adult plots are talked around rather than shown. Scores low: the strongest thing we found is swearing (moderate, in dialogue). Some mild language appears — for example, Keep it down, you bitch! Ay. Characters drink or talk about alcohol and drugs — Sorry we're late, but we come with wine. Every flagged moment below is a direct quote from the transcript or a short description of what happens on screen.

Watch for — every moment, theme by theme

Swearing 3 moments

How Swearing shows up in Modern Family S5 E19:

  • Caution
    Keep it down, you bitch! Ay.
  • Mild
    Only do what we're capable of, right? Oh, damn.
  • Mild
    What's your 20? - Oh, what the hell? - What's going on? The kids unfriended me again.

Alcohol & drugs 3 moments

How Alcohol & drugs shows up in Modern Family S5 E19:

  • Mild
    Sorry we're late, but we come with wine.
  • Mild
    What?! I tried beer.
  • Mild
    It's just, you reach a certain age, and you start to wonder, "Am I everything I wanted to be?" I mean, am I selling houses, or am I just selling out? Anything else? Alex tried beer.

Watch With The Kids · Your kids — your rules! · Informal parent guidance, not an official rating.