Torn Between Two Lovers
🎞️ S10 E4 ✅ Mild

Modern Family

Is Modern Family S10 E4 OK for kids?

Torn Between Two Lovers

Haley can't seem to choose between her past and present relationships and is forced to make a decision. Meanwhile, Manny returns to college and dorm life while his girlfriend, Sherry, continues to stay at Jay and Gloria's, and might be overstaying her welcome.

📺 Where to watch

Netflix, HBO or Disney+ — catalogs differ by country.

🛒 Where to buy

Digital seasons or a box set to keep.

Content guide

👊 Violence
💋 Sex
🙊 Language
⭐ Overall

Mild — okay from about 9+

Modern Family S10 E4, “Torn Between Two Lovers”, scores 2/5 for violence, 2/5 for sex and 1/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 2/5 — Mild — okay from about 9+. Haley can't seem to choose between her past and present relationships and is forced to make a decision. Meanwhile, Manny returns to college and dorm life while his girlfriend, Sherry, continues to stay at Jay and Gloria's, and might be overstaying her welcome.

Across the episode we counted 4 flagged moments in 3 themes: Sex & hookups (2); Violence & injury (1); Alcohol & drugs (1). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.

Parents need to know

Age 9+

Violence, sex talk, drinking in live-action sitcom.

Parents need to know that Modern Family S10 E4, "Torn Between Two Lovers", is a live-action sitcom episode. The series is known for family-first; adult plots are talked around rather than shown. Scores low: the strongest thing we found is violence & injury (explicit, in dialogue). Violence is mild but includes You stab me? Huh? Darn it. Sexual content is mild but includes I went to Dylan's house to tell him it wasn't okay that we kissed, and I ended up…. Characters drink or talk about alcohol and drugs — why don't you guys join us in the kitchen? I'll grab us some wine. Every flagged moment below is a direct quote from the transcript or a short description of what happens on screen.

Watch for — every moment, theme by theme

Sex & hookups 2 moments

How Sex & hookups shows up in Modern Family S10 E4:

  • Caution
    I went to Dylan's house to tell him it wasn't okay that we kissed, and I ended up sleeping with him.
  • Caution
    Well, I did sleep with that thing since I was like 16.

Violence & injury 1 moment

How Violence & injury shows up in Modern Family S10 E4:

  • Too much
    You stab me? Huh? Darn it.

Alcohol & drugs 1 moment

How Alcohol & drugs shows up in Modern Family S10 E4:

  • Mild
    why don't you guys join us in the kitchen? I'll grab us some wine.

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