Can't Elope
🎞️ S10 E20 ✅ Mild

Modern Family

Is Modern Family S10 E20 OK for kids?

Can't Elope

Haley and Dylan's plan to quietly elope before the babies are born doesn't go as smoothly as they had hoped. Meanwhile, Jay continues to try and get his new business off the ground by courting an Instagram celebrity.

📺 Where to watch

Netflix, HBO or Disney+ — catalogs differ by country.

🛒 Where to buy

Digital seasons or a box set to keep.

Content guide

👊 Violence
💋 Sex
🙊 Language
⭐ Overall

Mild — okay from about 9+

Modern Family S10 E20, “Can't Elope”, scores 2/5 for violence, 1/5 for sex and 2/5 for language, for an overall kid-rating of 2/5 — Mild — okay from about 9+. Haley and Dylan's plan to quietly elope before the babies are born doesn't go as smoothly as they had hoped. Meanwhile, Jay continues to try and get his new business off the ground by courting an Instagram celebrity.

Across the episode we counted 6 flagged moments in 4 themes: Sex & hookups (1); Violence & injury (2); Alcohol & drugs (2); Sexual insults (1). Every moment below is either a direct quote from the episode transcript or a short description of what happens on screen, so you can decide before you press play.

Parents need to know

Age 9+

Violence, sexual insults, drinking in live-action sitcom.

Parents need to know that Modern Family S10 E20, "Can't Elope", is a live-action sitcom episode. The series is known for family-first; adult plots are talked around rather than shown. Scores low: the strongest thing we found is violence & injury (explicit, in dialogue). Violence is mild but includes I would murder my entire family and all of their friends to see that musical. Sexual content is mild but includes And the only thing less sexy than a dog bed is a quitter, and I didn't marry a quitter. Some mild language appears in the dialogue. This episode includes sexual insults — for example, If we said yes to everything, then we're no better than that whore Grumpy Cat. Characters drink or talk about alcohol and drugs — Oh, it's such an honor to - Vodka! - Oh. Every flagged moment below is a direct quote from the transcript or a short description of what happens on screen.

Watch for — every moment, theme by theme

Sex & hookups 1 moment

How Sex & hookups shows up in Modern Family S10 E20:

  • Mild
    And the only thing less sexy than a dog bed is a quitter, and I didn't marry a quitter.

Violence & injury 2 moments

How Violence & injury shows up in Modern Family S10 E20:

  • Too much
    I would murder my entire family and all of their friends to see that musical.
  • Caution
    Who should I choose? Either way, I lose I stare at the gun Is it daughter, is it son? Choices - Impossible choices - Choices - Impossible choices - Impossible Both: Choices This is why I can't have friends over.

Alcohol & drugs 2 moments

How Alcohol & drugs shows up in Modern Family S10 E20:

  • Mild
    Oh, it's such an honor to - Vodka! - Oh.
  • Mild
    You're gonna taste some wine today! Hey, hey, hey.

Sexual insults 1 moment

How Sexual insults shows up in Modern Family S10 E20:

  • Caution
    If we said yes to everything, then we're no better than that whore Grumpy Cat.

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